Deepa Tailor
Senior Family Lawyer
Deepa Tailor is known for her practical approach to Settlement Conferences, helping clients interpret judicial feedback to avoid the cost of a full trial.
View Full BioThe gloves come off. Unlike the Case Conference, the Settlement Conference is designed to force a resolution. Learn how Rule 18 Offers to Settle can save you thousands.
Legal Review: Reviewed by Deepa Tailor, to ensure compliance with Rule 17(5) of the Family Law Rules regarding settlement discussions and privilege.
Many clients confuse the two. Here is how the Settlement Conference (SC) differs from the Case Conference (CC):
(The Planner)
"Organize the file."
"Ensures financial disclosure is done."
"Procedural Orders (e.g., 'File tax returns by Friday')."
(The Negotiator)
"End the fight."
"Tells you who will likely win at trial."
"Final Settlement or strict Trial Management directions."
Preparation is stricter for this stage. Your Settlement Conference Brief (Form 17C) must include:
A finalized calculation of assets and debts. No more estimates.
Business valuations, real estate appraisals, or parenting assessments must be attached.
A formal legal offer outlining exactly what you are willing to accept.
A summary of what your witnesses will say if this goes to trial.
Myth: "The judge at the Settlement Conference can force us to sign a deal."
Reality: No. The judge can pressure you, scare you with trial costs, and tell you that you will lose, but they cannot force you to sign. However, ignoring their advice is usually expensive.
No. To ensure fairness, the judge who hears your private settlement offers is disqualified from being your Trial Judge. They know too much about your bottom line.
If you make a reasonable Offer to Settle, and your ex rejects it but does worse at trial than your offer, the court can order them to pay a large portion of your legal fees. This is the main pressure tactic used at this stage.
Generally, no. Only the parties listed on the Application (you and your ex) and lawyers attend. New partners usually wait outside unless their income is relevant to support calculations.
A strategic Offer to Settle can end your case early and protect you from legal costs. We help you draft offers that judges respect.
Book a Settlement Strategy SessionSenior Family Lawyer
Deepa Tailor is known for her practical approach to Settlement Conferences, helping clients interpret judicial feedback to avoid the cost of a full trial.
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