Legal Review
This guide was reviewed by Deepa Tailor, Senior Family Lawyer, to ensure compliance with Ontario family law.
Children are not property; they are people with rights. Understanding how the Office of the Children’s Lawyer (OCL) and private professionals bring your child’s views into the courtroom.
Legal Review: This guide was reviewed by Deepa Tailor, Senior Family Lawyer , to ensure compliance with the Children’s Law Reform Act and the ‘Views and Preferences’ mandate (2026).
No. In Ontario, a child does not get to ‘pick’ which parent they live with until they are 18. However, children have a legal right to have their views heard and considered. A Voice of the Child (VOC) Report is a non-clinical document where a professional interviews the child and summarizes their stated wishes for the judge. It is lighter and faster than a full psychological assessment, giving the child a voice without forcing them to take the stand.
One records what they say ; the other analyzes why they say it.
A summary of the child’s stated preferences (e.g., ‘I want to live with Dad’).
Done by a lawyer or social worker.
Shallow. It does NOT analyze if the child is being coached or alienated. It just reports their words.
A full clinical evaluation of the entire family unit.
Done by a Psychologist.
Deep. It diagnoses mental health issues, parenting capacity, and whether the child’s ‘wishes’ are genuine or the result of manipulation.
You usually need a court order or a consent agreement to initiate a VOC report. The Office of the Children’s Lawyer (OCL) may agree to do it for free, or you can hire a private professional.
The professional meets the child (usually twice) in a neutral setting. They ask open-ended questions about school, home life, and their feelings about each parent.
A written report is produced verbatim or summarized. It does NOT make a recommendation on custody; it simply states: ‘The child expressed a wish to see Mother on weekends.’
The judge reads the report. For an older child (12-14+), these views carry heavy weight. For a younger child (under 10), they are considered but rarely determinative.
Risks for Parents
If a child uses adult language (‘Dad is a narcissist’), the VOC report will record it. A savvy judge might see through it, but the report itself won’t filter it out.
Asking a child to ‘choose’ can cause immense anxiety and guilt. Some children prefer not to have a voice to avoid hurting a parent.
A child might say ‘I want to stay with Mom’ simply because Mom has no rules and Dad makes them do homework. The VOC report doesn’t analyze the ‘why.’
While faster than a full assessment, private VOC reports can still cost $2,000-$5,000 and delay proceedings by months.
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Senior Family Lawyer
Deepa Tailor is the founder of Tailor Law. She regularly works with OCL counsel and private assessors to ensure her clients’ children are heard safely and accurately in court proceedings.
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