
How to legally take control of property and personal care for a loved one who has lost capacity
Legal Review: Reviewed by Deepa Tailor, Senior Family Lawyer, to ensure accuracy regarding Ontario’s Substitute Decisions Act and guardianship application procedures.
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Many families assume that if a crisis hits—like a sudden stroke or advanced dementia—the “next of kin” naturally takes over. For money and property, this is false. (For medical treatment, family members are ranked as substitute decision-makers under the Health Care Consent Act, 1996, s. 20.)
If your loved one did not sign a Power of Attorney while they were capable, the Office of the Public Guardian and Trustee (OPGT) technically becomes the decision-maker of last resort.
Here’s the reality: Without a Power of Attorney, you cannot access their bank accounts or sell their home. That is where a Guardianship Application becomes necessary.
A formal Letter of Opinion from a designated capacity assessor declaring the individual “incapable.”
A detailed plan, in the prescribed form, outlining exactly how you will spend their money and manage their assets.
Your written consent to act as guardian, plus a statement that your loved one was told about the application and their right to oppose it.
Required to prove you are suitable to manage vulnerable assets.
“My parent has dementia, so I can just sign the listing agreement to sell their house to pay for care.”
You cannot. The moment capacity is lost, the signature is void. Unless you are the appointed Guardian of Property, the house is frozen.
Scenario: Your spouse has Alzheimer’s. You need to downsize, but they cannot sign the deed.
Fix: Guardianship of Property allows you to sign the Transfer of Land on their behalf.
Scenario: A sibling with a disability inherits $100,000 but cannot manage it.
Fix: The court appoints a guardian of property to manage the inheritance.
Scenario: Three siblings disagree on whether Dad should go to a nursing home.
Fix: Guardianship of Personal Care gives ONE person the final say.
Hire a designated assessor to formally document that the individual cannot make decisions.
We draft the Notice of Application and the Management Plan, serving it to the OPGT and all family members.
If uncontested, a judge reviews the file in chambers and issues the Guardianship Order.

Deepa Tailor is a Senior Family Lawyer with extensive experience in guardianship applications, capacity assessments, and estate litigation.
Guardianship applications are complex, expensive, and heavily scrutinized by the court. Tailor Law can help you draft the Management Plan, secure the Capacity Assessment, and represent you in court.