Legal Review
This guide was reviewed by Deepa Tailor, Senior Family Lawyer, to ensure compliance with Ontario family law.
It doesn’t always mean a screaming match. It means you disagree on the terms. Learn what happens when an Answer is filed and the court process begins.
Legal Review: This procedural guide was reviewed by Deepa Tailor, Senior Family Lawyer , to ensure compliance with the Ontario Family Law Rules regarding litigation steps.
A divorce becomes legally Contested the moment the Respondent files a Form 10: Answer challenging any claim made in the initial Application (e.g., disagreeing on custody, support amounts, or property value). Once an Answer is filed, the divorce cannot proceed administratively as a ‘Desk Divorce.’ Instead, it enters the court stream, requiring mandatory steps like a Case Conference , Discovery , and potentially a Trial .
It starts with filing forms (Application, Answer, Reply). This sets the “battlefield” of issues.
You don’t go straight to trial. You attend multiple conferences (Case, Settlement, Trial Management) where a judge tries to make you settle.
Unlike TV, it’s slow. A contested divorce takes 1 to 3 years on average due to court backlogs.
You can agree on EVERYTHING (Custody, House) but fight over ONE thing (e.g., Spousal Support duration).
The entire divorce is “Contested” until that one thing is fixed. This is why many cases settle at the last minute—the cost of fighting over one issue becomes too high.
If the fight drags on, you can ask the court to “Sever the Divorce.”
This grants the divorce (single status) now , while letting the financial fight continue separately. This is common when one party wants to remarry but property division is still being litigated.
Application (Form 8) and Answer (Form 10). The Respondent has 30 days to file an Answer after being served.
Swapping Form 13.1. This is mandatory. You cannot hide assets in a contested case. Full disclosure includes tax returns, bank statements, and property valuations.
The first meeting with a judge. They give an opinion and set deadlines. The judge will identify issues and push for settlement.
Temporary orders for who lives in the house or interim support payments while waiting for trial. These are urgent requests that need immediate court attention.
A final push to agree before trial. The judge will give a strong opinion on likely trial outcomes to encourage settlement.
Official regulations governing the Answer process in Ontario family law cases
Government guide to family court procedures and processes
Step-by-step guide for responding to a divorce application
It varies widely. If it settles at a Case Conference, $3,000-$5,000. If it goes to Trial, costs can exceed $30,000-$50,000+. The cost depends on complexity, number of issues, and how long the case takes.
Understand the cost difference
What happens if you don’t settle
How to stop the fight
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