The law has updated the language, but the right remains the same. Understanding 'Parenting Time,' 'Contact Orders,' and how to secure a schedule that keeps you in your child's life.
Legal Review: This visitation guide was reviewed by Deepa Tailor, Senior Family Lawyer, to ensure compliance with the Divorce Act changes regarding 'Parenting Time' and 'Contact' (2026).
Legally, the term 'Visitation' (or 'Access') has been replaced to reduce conflict.
Regardless of the name, the principle is the same: The Maximum Contact Principle encourages as much time with each parent as is consistent with the child's best interests.
Open-ended. 'Upon reasonable notice.' Works only for highly cooperative parents. A disaster for high-conflict exes.
Specific dates and times (e.g., 'Alternate weekends from Friday 4 PM to Sunday 6 PM'). Reduces arguments and is preferred by courts.
Used when safety is a concern (addiction, abuse, flight risk). Visits happen at a center or with a trusted relative present.
Video calls (Zoom/FaceTime). Crucial for long-distance parents or as a supplement to in-person visits during the week.
The legal standing differs based on your role.
Strong Right
Parents have a presumptive right to Parenting Time unless they are proven unfit. Denial of access is rare and requires evidence of harm.
Permissive Right
You do not have an automatic right. You must apply for a 'Contact Order' and prove that severing the relationship would hurt the child. The onus is on you.
Show up at the pickup spot. Send a text: 'I am here to pick up [Child].' Keep a log of every refusal.
Send a polite email asking to reschedule the missed time within 14 days. This shows you are reasonable.
If denials persist, we apply for a Court Order with a police clause directing authorities to enforce the schedule.
As a last resort, we ask the court to find the withholding parent in contempt, which can lead to fines or custody reversal.
Understanding how grandparents can apply for contact orders and maintain relationships with grandchildren.
What happens when a parent denies court-ordered parenting time and how to address violations.
When and how supervised visitation is ordered to protect children while maintaining parental contact.

Senior Family Lawyer
Deepa Tailor is the founder of Tailor Law. She helps parents move from vague 'reasonable access' disputes to clear, enforceable parenting schedules that protect the parent-child bond.
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