Many parents plan a "Financial Freedom Party" for their child's 18th birthday. But if you stop paying without a court order, you might wake up to a garnished bank account.
Legal Strategy reviewed by Deepa Tailor, Senior Family Lawyer. Updated January 2026 to reflect current Family Responsibility Office (FRO) protocols.
Child support does NOT automatically stop at age 18. It continues as long as the child is a "Child of the Marriage" (e.g., in full-time school).
Support usually continues until the child completes their first post-secondary degree/diploma (approx. age 22).
If your case is with the Family Responsibility Office, you cannot just stop paying. You must file a Motion to Change or a Consent Motion to terminate the enforcement.
Many parents plan a "Financial Freedom Party" for their child's 18th birthday. They circle the date on the calendar, counting down the years until child support obligations end. But here's the reality: if you stop paying without a court order, you might wake up to a garnished bank account, frozen assets, and a suspended driver's license.
In Ontario, child support doesn't automatically terminate when your child turns 18. The law recognizes that many young adults continue to depend on parental support while pursuing education, dealing with disabilities, or transitioning to independence.
"We hear it every week: 'My kid graduated high school, so I stopped paying.' Then the Family Responsibility Office (FRO) starts enforcement proceedings. The FRO is a collection agency—they follow the last court order until you give them a new one saying 'Stop.'"
This guide explains exactly when child support obligations end in Ontario, how to properly terminate payments through the FRO, and what happens if your child pursues post-secondary education. Whether you're approaching your child's 18th birthday or dealing with a university-aged adult child, understanding these rules can save you thousands in enforcement penalties.
Under the Divorce Act and Family Law Act, a "child of the marriage" is a child who is either:
Any child under the age of majority (18 in Ontario) is automatically considered a child of the marriage.
A child over 18 who cannot withdraw from parental control due to illness, disability, or full-time education.
In Ontario, we don't use the American term "emancipation." Instead, courts look at whether the child has "withdrawn from parental control." This is a fact-specific analysis that considers:
Does the child live independently or still reside with a parent?
Is the child self-supporting through full-time employment?
Is the child pursuing full-time post-secondary education?
A child who moves out at 16 or 17 does NOT automatically terminate your support obligation. If they're still in high school or unable to support themselves, you likely still owe support. Courts look at the reason for leaving (kicked out vs. voluntary departure) and whether the child is still dependent.
Post-secondary education creates the most confusion around child support termination. Here's what you need to know:
Ontario courts typically order child support to continue until the child completes their first post-secondary degree or diploma. This usually means:
If the child lives away at school (residence or off-campus), the base "Table Amount" of child support may be reduced or eliminated because the child is no longer living with the recipient parent full-time. However, this is not automatic—it requires a Motion to Change.
While base support may drop, Section 7 "Special Expenses" typically increase dramatically to cover:
Many parents are shocked to discover their total support obligation actually increases when their child starts university. While the monthly base payment might drop from $1,200 to $600, they're now paying 50% of $15,000/year in tuition plus residence costs. We help parents negotiate realistic contribution limits based on the child's program choice and their own financial capacity.
You cannot simply stop paying child support when your child turns 18 or graduates. You must obtain a court order or signed agreement terminating the obligation. Otherwise, arrears continue to accumulate, and the FRO can enforce collection.
There are two paths to properly terminate child support in Ontario:
If both parents agree that support should end, you can file a Consent Motion to Change (Form 15) with a Consent Order (Form 25A).
Timeline: 2-4 weeks
Cost: $1,500-$3,000 in legal fees (if using a lawyer to draft)
If the other parent disagrees (e.g., they claim the child is still in school or unable to work), you must file a contested Motion to Change and prove the child is no longer eligible.
Timeline: 4-8 months
Cost: $5,000-$15,000+ depending on complexity
The Family Responsibility Office (FRO) is Ontario's government enforcement agency for child support. They are not a court—they are a collection agency. They follow the last court order on file, and they will continue to enforce that order until you give them a new one saying "Stop."
Many parents mistakenly believe they can simply stop making payments once their child turns 18 or graduates. Here's what actually happens:
Every missed payment is recorded as "arrears" (debt). Even if your child is 25 and self-supporting, if you never filed a termination order, the FRO considers you in default.
The FRO can freeze and seize funds from your bank accounts without warning. You wake up one morning and your account is empty.
The FRO can suspend your driver's license if you're in arrears. This can impact your ability to work and earn income.
If you owe more than $3,000 in arrears, the FRO can notify the federal government to deny or revoke your passport.
The FRO can garnish up to 50% of your wages directly from your employer. Your employer is legally required to comply.
The FRO reports arrears to credit bureaus (Equifax, TransUnion), which can destroy your credit score and ability to get loans or mortgages.
You must first obtain a court order (either by consent or contested motion) that states child support is terminated as of a specific date.
Fill out Form 15D: Notice of Termination. This form tells the FRO to stop enforcement.
Download Form 15D:
Ontario Court Forms WebsiteSend the completed Form 15D along with a certified copy of the court order to the FRO.
The FRO will process your termination request (usually 2-4 weeks) and send you written confirmation that enforcement has ended.
Do NOT email the FRO and expect them to stop enforcement. They require official court documents. Calling them to say "My kid graduated" will not stop the collection process. You need Form 15D and a court order—nothing else will work.

About the Author
Deepa Tailor is a Senior Family Lawyer specializing in Ontario divorce proceedings, complex property division, and high-stakes custody disputes. She provides strategic, results-driven advocacy to help clients protect their assets and secure their children's future, whether through amicable negotiation or vigorous courtroom representation.
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