Litigation is not the only way. Explore private, cost-effective pathways to resolve family disputes without setting foot in a courtroom.
Legal Review: This ADR guide was reviewed by Deepa Tailor, Senior Family Lawyer, to ensure compliance with the Ontario Family Law Rules mandating dispute resolution consideration (2026).
Alternative Dispute Resolution (ADR) refers to any method of resolving legal conflicts outside of the public court system. In Ontario, the three primary types of ADR are Mediation (Negotiation), Arbitration (Private Adjudication), and Collaborative Practice (Team-Based Settlement). These methods are typically faster, cheaper, and more private than traditional litigation.
Which method fits your family dynamic?
The Negotiator
A neutral third party helps you facilitate a conversation to reach your own agreement.
Explore MediationThe Team Approach
You and your spouse hire lawyers who pledge NOT to go to court, working together to build a settlement.
Explore CollaborativeThe Private Judge
You hire a private decision-maker to hear your case and make a binding ruling, skipping court delays.
Explore ArbitrationPublic Record:
Anyone can read your file.
Slow:
18-36 months to trial.
Expensive:
High conflict equals high legal fees.
Rigid:
A judge decides your schedule.
Confidential:
Your financial privacy is protected.
Fast:
You set the dates; finish in months.
Cost-Effective:
Efficient use of legal time.
Flexible:
Creative solutions tailored to your family.
Meet with a Tailor Law ADR specialist to determine which method (Mediation, Arb, or Collab) suits your conflict level.
We formally invite your spouse to participate in the chosen ADR process. ADR is voluntary; both sides must agree.
Mandatory screening for domestic violence to ensure the process is safe and fair.
Once terms are settled, we draft a binding Separation Agreement. If Arbitration, the arbitrator issues an Award.
Yes. Ontario courts now mandate that parties *must* consider ADR before proceeding with litigation, unless there is a safety risk.

Deepa Tailor is the founder of Tailor Law. She helps families choose the right dispute resolution stream, moving them out of the court backlog and into a finalized agreement.
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